When my husband left for work in KL this two weeks, I found myself stepping into a role that, while not unfamiliar, always comes with its unique set of challenges—solo parenting. For those of us used to sharing the parenting load, the temporary shift can be both demanding and eye-opening.
This week, I had to adjust, plan, and keep things running smoothly while handling work and family life.
Here’s a look at what my days have been like and what I've learned from this solo parenting experience.
Day One: The Juggling Act Begins
As my husband flew off to KL on Sunday, I prepped myself mentally for the week ahead. I made a quick checklist: meals planned, kid-friendly activities lined up, and work projects organized as best as I could. But, of course, the juggling act started the moment we were on our own. Balancing my time between my son, household chores, and my work was a challenge right from the start.
Lesson Learned: Planning is everything when it comes to solo parenting. Even if things don’t go perfectly, having a framework helps me stay grounded and keeps things from feeling overwhelming.
Managing Morning Routines Alone
One of the biggest challenges has been managing mornings solo. Normally, we tag-team everything—from breakfast to getting our son dressed and out the door. This week, however, I’m the one-man show. Trying to keep up the routine has been a test of patience and endurance, but I find it gets a little easier each day.
My Strategy: Simplify where possible. I’ve streamlined breakfast and encouraged my son to be a bit more independent with little things. It’s been surprisingly rewarding to see him try, even if he doesn’t always get it right.
Keeping the Home in Order
Keeping our home in order with a little one running around has been… let’s just say a work in progress! I’ve been doing a bit of tidying each evening once my son is asleep, but I’m definitely not expecting perfection. This week, I’ve learned to embrace a bit of chaos and let go of the need to keep everything spotless.
Lesson Learned: Letting go of perfection has been key to staying sane. Some things can wait until my husband returns, and that’s perfectly okay.
Bedtime Without Backup
I hadn’t realized just how much I appreciate the teamwork we have at bedtime. Solo parenting through our nighttime routine is another story altogether! I’ve done my best to keep things calm, add in a bit more Storytime, and make bedtime a little extra special. I can tell my son misses his dad, but the one-on-one time has been heartwarming in its own way.
Tip for Solo Parents: Routine and reassurance are everything. Consistency at bedtime helps my son feel secure, even with Dad away.
Moments of Gratitude and Growth
Throughout this week, I’ve felt such gratitude for the little things. While there have been moments of exhaustion, there have also been many moments where I’m simply thankful. Watching my son step up and do things on his own, seeing his patience with my own busy schedule, and the little hugs he gives as if he knows I need the extra support—it all reminds me of how strong our bond is.
Personal Reflection: This week has shown me that while solo parenting is tough, it also has its rewards. I feel closer to my son, and I feel a deeper appreciation for the partnership my husband and I share.
Counting Down and Looking Forward
As much as I’ve tried to make the most of this solo parenting experience, I’m also eagerly counting down to when my husband returns! The experience has been a reminder of the strong teamwork we share and how much we rely on each other for support. This week has made me even more grateful for our shared role as parents.
Takeaway: Solo parenting has taught me a lot about patience, resilience, and gratitude. While I may not want to do it long-term, I feel proud of getting through the week and finding joy in the little moments along the way.
Final Thoughts
Solo parenting isn’t easy, especially when you’re balancing work and home life. But it’s also an experience that teaches you so much about yourself, your child, and the power of support and partnership in parenting.
For all the solo parents out there who do this every day, I have so much respect for you. This week, I’ve only had a small taste of your reality, and it’s given me a whole new appreciation.
Are you also a solo parent from time to time? How do you manage the balancing act? I’d love to hear your tips and stories in the comments!
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